Thursday, October 15, 2015

Identities Online and IRL: How the Internet Navigates the Personal and Collective Self

The way we identify ourselves defines who we are. You already know a lot about me if I tell you that I’m a red head, who likes mozzarella sticks, and enjoys sleeping in. But who we identify with also plays a role in the makeup of our character. I’m a sister of Sigma Delta Tau, I’m Irish, and I’m a student at the University of Rochester. My membership in these groups defines me as both an individual, and a member of the collective whole. These associations, organizations, and cultural groups provide a context for understanding who I am. Psychologist Dr. Haim Weinberg argues that “a personal identity cannot be formed without a collective identity to serve as a reference point” (54). Today, more than ever before, people connect with others who share similar interests and backgrounds through the internet. Groups form over chat rooms, blogs, and hashtags, creating a virtual sphere of people who share a common concept of their identity. If our personal and collective selves are so deeply intertwined, how does the internet help navigate that dynamic?

Before we even begin to think about how the internet acts a tool to connect our group identities to our personal identities, we have define what a group is, and consider how they operate on the World Wide Web. Virtual dynamics researchers Katelyn McKenna and Amie Green characterize a group as two or more people who are “interacting in such a manner that each person is influenced by and exerts influence on the other individuals” (117). This makes sense in the context of personal and collective identities; when you interact with others, you exchange bits of your personalities and thoughts. Picture this for a moment—you love fishing. Can’t get enough of it. So you join a Facebook group of other fishermen (and women—the internet doesn’t discriminate) to talk about the joys of casting a line. You make a connection with someone, and share tips on how to catch catfish—not like Nevand Max, that’s a topic for a different blog post. Each fisherman walks away from this situation with new information, and maintains their personal identity while adding to their collective self.  McKenna and Green also argue that groups serve two specific functions—achieving a shared goal, and fulfilling an individual’s social needs (120). While some social phycologists claim that internet groups cannot satisfy our social needs, McKenna and Green cite evidence from a 2002 study that argues the contrary. The study found 84% of the participants found their online relationships to be as close, important, and real as their offline relationships. The study also found that these online relationships stayed consistent and stable over time (McKenna 120).  Obviously, fishermen and women everywhere benefit from the relationships they form online. McKenna and Green also point out an important component of virtual groups that sets them apart from their physical counterparts: internet groups are always in session. Users can participate at any time, day or night. So even if the fish don’t bite at 3 am, chances are someone in the fisherman Facebook group is up and willing to chat.                                                                                                                                                                                   
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I propose that the internet acts as an enabler that allows users to traverse their personal and collective identity. Considered alienated sexual minorities. There is nothing more terrifying, in my opinion, than feeling that you are completely alone with little to no support. Researcher Bharat Mehra designed a study that explored the role of internet based communication among sexual minorities, focusing on “how members of the LGBT community are using the internet to express their marginalized ‘queer’ identities and achieve social change in their local living environment” (787). The study found that LGBT users find positive development in their ‘queer’ identities through internet communication with other members of the LGBT community. Mehra establishes that the internet based group helped share information about LGBT events, promoted LGBT users to make political statements to heterosexual communities, generated a fostering support network, and provided a space for LGBT users to interact and socialize (789). The study’s results easily point us to the idea that the internet is a tool for people who identify with historically marginalized groups to define a collective identity, and incorporate it into their everyday lives. McKenna and Green argue similar findings; they claim that the more internet users participate in identifying groups, the more they integrated a previously taboo aspect of identity into their self-concept (121). They found that more than 40% of participants eventually share previously secret aspect of their identity to family and friends for the first time, as a direct result of their Internet group activities (121). This is extremely important for members of the LBGT community and other marginalized groups everywhere. In coming- out, or sharing another formerly closeted area of their lives, internet users make what could be left private public information, demonstrating how uniquely important the online group is to their identity on a personal and collective level.

The internet is vast. It stretches to the corners of the globe and connects millions of people who might never get the chance to communicate if not for the wonders of the web. It undeniably provides a space for users to mark their identities by joining groups, sharing stories, and receiving the support they may not be able to find in their offline lives. The internet helps us navigate who we are IRL and offline; who are when we’re alone and when we’re in the company of our virtual peers. Our identities tell us who we are; I’m an Irish, redhead student at the University of Rochester, who loves mozzarella sticks and sleeping in, and who also happens to belong to a Facebook group called “Dogs in Sweaters” (true story). But hey—that’s just me. The real question is who are you?


Sources

McKenna, Katelyn, and Amie Green. "Virtual Group Dynamics." Group Dynamics: Theory, Research and Practice 6.1 (2002): 116-27. 2002. Web. Oct. 2015. https://www.ece.ubc.ca/~leei/519/2002-VirtualGroupDynamics.pdf

Mehra, Bharat, Cecelia Merkel, and Ann Peterson Bishop. "The Internet for Empowerment of Minority and Marginalized Users." New Media and Society 6 (2004): 781-802. Sage Journals. Sage Publications. Web. Oct. 2015. http://nms.sagepub.com/content/6/6/781.full.pdf+html


Wienberg, Haim. "Group Analysis, Large Groups, and the Internet Unconscious." (n.d.): n. pag. Group-psychotherapy. Manchester Metropolitan University, Mar. 2006. Web. Oct. 2015. http://www.group-psychotherapy.com/articles/HaimPhD.pdf

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